Sunday, March 21, 2010

Strategies for Avoiding conflict

Aruguments and disagreements happen every day of everyones life pretty much. This is because no one shares the same exact point of view of everything. So conflicts and arguments happen easily. Everyone has a different of solving them. Some ignore them, some come straight with them, others apologize.

When i come across an argument or disagreement i have different ways of handling them. If i am arguing with someone, whether it be a friend or my dad, and I'm right im going to stand my ground. I won't back down until i get my point across to them. If the situation was i was wrong in the argument and it gets to far I will admit I was wrong. Sometimes when I argue with someone who I know never likes to be wrong I don't bother fighting over it because no matter what you say the are right. Like parents for instance. Whether they are completly at fault they are never at fault and it took me 17 years to finally realize this. So now when i disagree with my dad or argue with one of my parent i just apologize and leave it.

There has been many of times when i hang out with my friends I witness conflicts and i see whose right and whose acually wrong. When it comes to that I'll stay out of it. If it's not my problem then I shouldn't be getting involved. When you get involved words get twisted around and then next thing you know you're in the middle of the argument. So i choose to stay out of it unless one of my friends or someone has the wrong information in a situation then I will clear it up for them.

No comments:

Post a Comment